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How do you write a groom speech?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For grooms

Short answer

Write a groom speech by thanking the guests, the hosts and your partner, then sharing a short personal story or two. Mention your partner's family and your own, and end with a toast to your partner and to everyone who helped. Keep it warm and sincere.

Start with a simple thank you to everyone for coming, and to the people who helped organise the day, such as parents or friends. Then thank your partner directly, saying something genuine about them and what they mean to you. You can share one short story about how you met or a moment that showed why you love them. Keep it personal but not too private. Then thank both sets of parents or guardians, and any other family members who have supported you. If there are step-parents or chosen family, include them too. You might also thank the bridal party or anyone who helped with the day. Keep the tone warm and light. Avoid long lists of thanks, and do not make jokes at your partner's expense. End with a toast. Raise your glass, look at your partner, and say something like, "To my wonderful partner, and to all of you for being here." Practise the speech aloud a few times so it feels natural. Aim for three to five minutes. Write it out in full, but also have bullet points on a card in case you lose your place.

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