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How do you write a best man speech?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For the bridal party · For guests

Short answer

To write a best man speech, start with a funny story about the groom, add a sincere compliment, thank the bridal party and end with a toast to the couple. Keep it under five minutes and practise aloud.

Begin by introducing yourself and thanking the hosts, usually the parents of the couple. Then tell one or two short, funny stories about the groom, such as a holiday mishap or a school prank. Keep the humour kind and avoid anything that could embarrass the couple or their families. After the laughs, say something genuine about the groom's character and how happy he is with his partner. You can also welcome the new spouse into the group of friends. Thank the bridal party and anyone who helped with the wedding. End with a clear toast, raising your glass to the couple. Keep the whole speech to three to five minutes. Practise it several times, ideally in front of a friend, and time yourself. Use notes if you need them, but look up often. If you are nervous, take a deep breath and speak slowly. The best speeches are short, warm and personal.

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