How to make a hen do extra special?

Start by thinking about what makes your friend happy. Does she love her family, her pets, a particular hobby or a special place? Build the weekend around those things. A photo slideshow, a memory jar or a letter from each guest can bring tears and smiles.

Personal touches matter more than big budgets. A customised sash, a playlist of songs from her childhood or a cake with her favourite flavour shows you know her well. If she is nervous about the big day, plan some quiet time together for a proper chat.

Consider including people who might not usually be at the party, such as a mother, sister or close friend. Their presence can make the day feel more complete. If the bride has a partner, ask whether she would like him to join for part of the time.

Finally, keep the focus on her. Avoid games that put her on the spot or jokes that might embarrass her. The best hen dos leave her feeling loved and relaxed before the wedding.