What do the French call a hen do?

Short answer

The French call a hen do an "enterrement de vie de jeune fille", which literally means "burial of the life of a young girl". It marks the end of single life. The male equivalent is "enterrement de vie de garçon".

In France, the hen do is called "enterrement de vie de jeune fille". That translates as "burial of the life of a young girl". It sounds dramatic, but it simply means saying goodbye to single life before marriage. The male version is "enterrement de vie de garçon", meaning "burial of the life of a boy".

French celebrations are often similar to British ones in spirit, though they may be a little more refined. A typical French hen do might involve a spa day, a nice dinner, a wine tasting or a weekend in the countryside. There is less emphasis on fancy dress and dares than in the UK, though some groups do enjoy a themed party. The key is spending quality time with close friends.

French hens and stags often keep the plans a surprise, but they usually check the budget first. The guests typically split the cost of the guest of honour, just as in the UK. The organisers might book a gîte, which is a holiday cottage, for the whole group. Activities are chosen to suit everyone, from relaxing to adventurous.

If you are attending a French hen do as a British guest, do not worry about language barriers. Most groups are welcoming, and you can join in with a smile. Bring a small gift if you like, but it is not required. The main thing is to be present and enjoy the celebration.