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Why do Brits call it a hen do?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For brides · For guests

Short answer

The term hen do comes from the word hen, which has long been used to describe a group of women. The do part simply means a social gathering or party.

The word hen has been used for centuries to refer to a group of women, much like a flock of birds. Calling a women's pre-wedding party a hen do follows this tradition and feels friendly and informal. The word do is a common British term for any social event or celebration, so a hen do is simply a party for hens.

You might also hear it called a hen night, hen weekend or hen party. These all mean the same thing, though the wording hints at how long the event lasts. Some people prefer hen party because it sounds more inclusive and less tied to old traditions. Others like hen do because it feels more British and down to earth.

There is no official rule about which name to use. Choose the one that fits your group and the bride's taste. If the bride prefers something different, such as a girls' trip or a celebration weekend, respect her choice. The name does not matter as much as making sure everyone feels welcome and the bride feels celebrated.

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