What is the etiquette for parents whose children are invited to a wedding?

Being invited with your child is a kindness, but it does come with a quiet understanding. Arrive on time and help your child settle in. Keep them near you during the ceremony so there are no distractions, and think about nappy bags, snacks and a spare outfit in your coat pocket.

Most venues have a changing room or quiet corner. Use it if your little one needs a break. If they are tired or upset, leave quietly without apology. The couple will understand, and your child will be safer and calmer with you than in a crowd.

If you are unsure about dress, timing or whether there is a kids' menu, ask the couple early. They will usually be glad to answer. Do not feel you must entertain your child the whole evening. A short dance, a slice of cake and a goodnight hug are enough for most children.