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There are no legal rules about keeping children away from a wedding. You are free to set your own guest list, but you should communicate the choice clearly and kindly.
A child-free wedding is simply a wedding where no children are invited. It is your day, and you may invite only the guests you wish. There is no law or tradition that says you must include children, and you do not need a reason beyond wanting an adults-only event.
The main challenge is how you tell people. Avoid phrases that sound like a rule or a judgement. Instead, say that you have chosen to keep the day to adults only. Put this on your invitation or wedding website so there is no confusion.
Some families will be disappointed, and that is understandable. Close relatives may have hoped their grandchildren would be there. Speak to them personally rather than leaving them to discover the news on an invite. A warm, honest conversation goes a long way.
Be prepared for questions about exceptions. If you have a flower girl or page boy, explain that these roles are special and do not mean other children are welcome. Consistency helps, even if it is hard. Most guests will respect a clear, polite decision.
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