What is the best wording for an adults-only wedding invitation?

The clearest approach is to name only the adults invited by full name on the envelope. Children are usually included when their names appear, so omitting them sends a clear signal. Add a gentle line on the invitation or the details page to avoid confusion.

Here are a few ways to phrase it:

• "We kindly request that your attendance be limited to adults."
• "This is an adults-only celebration. We hope you understand."
• "We love your little ones, but this is a grown-up evening."

If you have a wedding website, keep the wording consistent there too. Some guests may not notice a small line, so a direct message can help. If a guest asks about childcare, offer to share local babysitters or recommend a hotel with family rooms. Do not feel obliged to explain your reasons in detail.

Remember that wording alone may not be enough if a guest assumes their child is welcome. A quick, kind message to close family and friends before the save-the-date goes out can save hurt feelings later. Always check with your venue or religious building about any rules on children, as these can vary.