Who cuts the wedding cake?

The cake cutting is a lovely tradition, but it is not a rule. Most couples cut the first slice together, with hands placed over each other on the knife, while guests watch and photographers capture the moment. It usually happens after the wedding breakfast and before the evening party starts, so daytime and evening guests both see it. Some couples prefer to cut the cake earlier, perhaps before the speeches, to keep the flow moving. Others skip the formal cutting altogether and just have the cake served from the kitchen. If you want to include it, decide who holds the knife and where you stand so everyone can see. You do not need a special ceremony, just a steady hand and a smile. The first slice is often saved or shared, and the rest is cut by staff or a caterer. If you have a tiered cake, the bottom tier is usually cut first. There is no legal meaning to the act, so make it your own. You could cut it with a family heirloom knife or a simple server from the venue.