Why have a wedding cake?
A wedding cake is a centrepiece for your reception and a tradition that marks the start of your marriage. It gives guests something sweet to enjoy and often becomes a focus for photos and speeches. You can choose a cake that reflects your tastes, culture or family history, from a classic fruit cake to a modern drip cake or a tower of cheese.
You do not have to have a cake at all, but if you do, it can be as simple or as elaborate as you like. Some couples choose a small cutting cake for the ceremony and then serve a separate dessert or a cake table with lots of different treats. The cake is also a lovely way to thank your guests and to give them something to remember your day by.
Who buys and cuts the wedding cake?
Traditionally, the couple or the bride's family paid for the cake, but today anyone can buy it. Often the couple chooses and pays for it themselves, or parents, grandparents or friends may offer to contribute as a gift. There are no rules, so talk to your families and decide what feels right for you.
The cutting of the cake is usually done by the couple together, often after the meal or before the evening party. It is a symbolic act that marks the first task you do as a married couple. You do not need a special ceremony, but many couples like to have a photo taken. The cake is then served by your caterer or venue staff, so you do not have to worry about cutting enough slices for everyone.
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Order your cake as soon as you have confirmed your venue and date, ideally six to nine months before the wedding. Popular bakers book up quickly, especially for summer Saturdays. If you are having a very simple cake, three to four months may be enough, but it is safer to start early.
When you order, you will usually have a tasting session and a design consultation. You will need to confirm the number of guests, the flavour, the size and the style. You should also agree on the delivery date and time, and whether the baker will set up the cake at your venue. Some bakers offer delivery and setup as part of the price, while others charge extra, so ask for a full quote in writing.
How much do wedding cakes cost in the UK?
Wedding cake prices in the UK vary widely depending on the baker, the size, the design and the ingredients. A simple single-tier cake may cost less than a multi-tiered, hand-decorated creation. You will pay more for fresh flowers, sugar flowers, intricate piping, or a cake made with premium ingredients like organic flour or Belgian chocolate.
There is no fixed price list, so ask several bakers for quotes and compare what is included. Some bakers charge per slice, while others charge per cake. Always ask about delivery and setup fees, and whether the price includes a cake stand or topper. You can save money by choosing a smaller cake and serving it with extra desserts, or by buying a plain cake and adding your own decorations.
Wedding cake tiers and servings
The number of tiers you need depends on how many guests you want to serve and how dramatic you want the cake to look. A single tier serves around 20 to 30 slices, a two-tier cake serves around 40 to 60, and a three-tier cake serves around 80 to 120. These are rough guides, and your baker will give you exact numbers based on the size of each tier and how you cut it.
Remember that not every guest will want a slice, and some may be too full after the meal. You can ask your venue to cut smaller slices or to serve the cake with ice cream or custard. If you want a tall cake but do not need many servings, you can use dummy tiers, which are made of polystyrene and are not edible. Your baker can advise on the best combination of real and dummy tiers for your guest count.
Wedding cake flavours and freezing
Choose flavours that you and your partner love, and think about the season and your menu. Popular choices include vanilla sponge, chocolate, lemon, red velvet, carrot cake and fruit cake. A traditional fruit cake is dense and can be kept for months, which is why it is often used for the top tier to save for a first anniversary. You can also have different flavours for each tier, so your guests can choose.
Most sponge cakes are best eaten fresh, but they can be frozen if you want to keep the top tier. Wrap it tightly in cling film and then in foil, and freeze it on the day of the wedding or the day after. It will keep for up to three months. To serve, defrost it in the fridge overnight and bring it to room temperature before eating. Fruit cake can be kept in an airtight tin for up to a year, but it is best to check with your baker.
Delivery, storage and table height
Your cake should be delivered to the venue as close to the ceremony time as possible, usually on the morning of the wedding. Your baker will need access to the reception room and a clear space to set up. Make sure you have told the venue that a cake is arriving, and check if they have a fridge or a cool room. Most cakes are fine at room temperature for a few hours, but if the weather is hot or the cake has fresh cream, it may need refrigeration.
Do not leave a cake out overnight, especially if it has buttercream or fresh fruit. It will dry out or spoil. Your venue should store it in a cool, dry place or a fridge if needed. The cake table should be at a height that is easy for guests to see and for you to cut, usually around waist height, about 90 to 100 cm from the floor. Your venue will provide a table, but you may want to add a cloth, a stand or a topper. Toppers are optional, but they can add a personal touch, such as a monogram, a figurine or fresh flowers.
Checklist
- Choose your cake style and flavour at least six to nine months before the wedding.
- Book a tasting and get a written quote that includes delivery and setup.
- Confirm your guest count and decide on tier sizes with your baker.
- Arrange delivery time and access with your venue.
- Check if your venue has a fridge or cool room for the cake.
- Ask your venue to store the cake safely overnight if needed.
- Decide on a cake table and check its height and location.
- Plan who will cut the cake and when it will be served.
- If you want to keep the top tier, arrange for freezing on the day.
- Tell your caterer how many slices to serve and with what.
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