Who traditionally pays for the wedding cake?

In traditional UK wedding etiquette, the bride's family covered the cost of the wedding cake, along with other reception expenses. This custom dates back to a time when the bride's family hosted the entire wedding. Today, most couples pay for their own cake, or both sets of parents contribute as a gift. Some families offer to cover it as their contribution, while others split the cost evenly. The most important thing is to have an open conversation early on. Ask your families if they wish to contribute, but do not assume they will. If you are planning together, decide on a budget that works for you both. You could also ask guests to contribute towards the cake instead of a gift, though this is less common. Whatever you choose, make sure everyone is clear on who is paying and how much. This avoids awkward surprises later. Remember, the cake is part of your celebration, not a legal requirement. You can spend as little or as much as you like. The tradition is a starting point, not a rule.