Why do couples smash wedding cake?

The cake smash is a relatively new tradition, especially popular in the US and now common in the UK. It happens after the couple cuts the cake together. Instead of feeding each other a polite piece, one partner pushes the cake into the other's face, or they both do it to each other. It is meant to be funny and shows that the couple can laugh together.

The polite version of feeding each other cake is older and symbolises providing for and caring for one another. The smash turns that into a joke, and many couples enjoy it because it breaks the formality of the day. It also makes for memorable photos.

However, it is not for everyone. Some couples hate the idea of wasting cake or ruining their outfit and makeup. If you do not want a smash, you can gently feed each other a small piece, or simply cut the cake and share it with guests. You can also agree a signal, like a small tap on the nose, to show you are not going to smash.

If you do decide to smash, warn your partner first and agree on how messy you want it to be. Keep it playful, not aggressive. And remember, the cake is for eating, so try not to waste too much of it.