Do the bride and groom attend the cocktail hour?

Short answer

Yes, the couple usually attends the cocktail hour, which in the UK is often called drinks and canapés. This is the time right after the ceremony when you greet guests, pose for photos and enjoy a drink. It is a key part of the day.

The cocktail hour, or drinks reception, happens straight after the ceremony. The couple normally joins guests for at least part of it. This is when you thank everyone for coming, have your first conversations as a married couple, and let your photographer capture relaxed group shots. You do not have to stay for every minute; many couples step away for a few private photos or a quiet moment, then return.

If you are having a formal receiving line, you may greet guests at the start of the drinks hour. Otherwise, mingle naturally. It is a good idea to have a drink in hand so you feel part of the celebration. You can also use this time to check that the venue staff are ready for the meal.

Some couples choose to skip the cocktail hour to take photos alone or with the bridal party. That is fine, but your guests will appreciate seeing you early. If you do step away, ask a friend or usher to keep guests entertained. Remember, the drinks hour sets the tone for the whole reception, so being present and relaxed helps everyone feel welcome.