What is a good reply message to a wedding invitation?

Short answer

A good reply message is clear and warm. Write: 'Thank you for the invitation. We would love to come and celebrate with you. We look forward to the day.' If you cannot attend, say: 'Thank you for inviting us. We are sorry we cannot make it, but we wish you all the best.'

A good reply message to a wedding invitation is simple, polite, and clear about whether you will attend. Start by thanking the couple for the invitation. Then state your intention directly, so they can plan numbers. For an acceptance, write something like: 'Thank you so much for inviting us. We would be delighted to attend and look forward to celebrating with you.' For a decline, write: 'Thank you for thinking of us. We are very sorry we cannot join you on the day, but we send you our warmest congratulations and best wishes for your marriage.' If the invitation asks for a reply by a certain date, send it promptly. If there is a reply card, fill it in and post it back. If you are replying by email or an online form, keep the same tone. Mention the number of guests attending if the invitation allows a plus one. For a child, include their name if they are invited. Avoid giving a long reason for declining; a simple apology is enough. If you are unsure about the dress code or other details, ask the couple or check the invitation.