What is the Ghanaian traditional marriage list and what does it include?

The list is called the traditional marriage list and it is prepared by the bride's family to tell the groom's family what is needed for the ceremony. It is not a shopping list in the modern sense but a collection of symbolic items that show respect and commitment between the two families.

The items vary by region and family but often include:

• drinks such as gin, wine and schnapps
• money in envelopes
• kente cloth or other traditional fabrics
• food items like yams, salt and palm oil
• jewellery and accessories for the bride
• a traditional chair or stool in some families

The amount of money and number of items are agreed between the families before the ceremony. Some families prefer to keep the list simple while others follow a long traditional list. The groom's family usually brings the items in a decorated basket or tray during the ceremony. This is a public display of the groom's willingness to care for his new wife and support both families.

The ceremony is usually followed by a reception where both families celebrate together. Guests are expected to dress in traditional African clothing and bring gifts or money to help the couple start their life.

Tip: Ask the bride's family early for their specific list so nothing is forgotten on the day.