Who pays for the wedding venue and catering?

Traditionally, the bride's family paid for most of the wedding, but that is no longer the norm. Today, most couples pay for the venue and catering themselves, often with help from both sets of parents or other relatives. Some families offer a fixed sum towards the whole wedding, while others offer to cover a specific item, like the reception meal or the drinks. The key is to talk openly and early. If a parent offers to pay, ask whether they want to contribute to the venue and catering specifically, or to the overall budget. Be clear about what the cost includes, such as the room hire, the meal, the cake, and any service charges. If you are paying yourselves, work out a realistic total and then choose a venue that fits. Remember that venue and catering are usually the largest single cost, so it is worth comparing packages carefully. Some venues offer a package that includes food, while others let you bring in your own caterer. Check what is included in the quote, and ask about corkage, staffing and VAT. If family members are contributing, thank them properly and keep them informed, but remember the final decisions are yours.