How can I save money as a wedding guest?

Start by deciding the total amount you can comfortably spend, then break it down into travel, accommodation, outfit, gift and any extras like a hen or stag do. Book trains or flights as early as you can, and consider sharing a taxi or car with other guests. For your outfit, you do not need something new. Check your own wardrobe, swap with a friend, or look in charity shops and online second-hand sellers. For the gift, you do not have to match what others give. A thoughtful card with a small cash gift, or something homemade, is always appreciated. If the couple has a gift list, choose the least expensive item or contribute to a group gift. On the day, watch your spending on drinks and extras. Set a limit for the bar and stick to it. You can also save by staying with friends or family nearby instead of a hotel, and by skipping the pre-wedding events you cannot afford. The couple wants you there, not your wallet.