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Create one RSVP form that lists each event separately. Let guests choose attending or not for each one, and set a separate deadline if needed.
For a wedding with several events, such as a ceremony, a reception, a brunch the next day or a hen do, the key is to ask about each event on the same form. Most wedding website builders let you add multiple events to the RSVP page. For each event, add a question like "Will you attend the ceremony?" with yes or no options, and repeat for the other events. You can also ask about dietary requirements, plus ones and accessibility needs. If some events have a different deadline, for example the caterer needs numbers for the reception earlier, you can set separate deadlines for each event in the dashboard. Make it clear on the invitation which events are for which guests, because some guests may only be invited to certain parts. For example, you might invite everyone to the ceremony and reception, but only close friends to the after-party. Use the guest list feature to control who sees which events, if your builder allows it. Send one link to each guest, and ask them to reply once for all events. This keeps your guest list organised and avoids multiple emails.
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