How do I find a wedding dress style that suits me?

Begin with what you already know. Look at the shapes, fabrics and necklines you wear most often. If you love a relaxed linen dress, a heavy ballgown may feel wrong. If you always wear tailored trousers, a sleek column could feel more like you. Save photos of dresses that catch your eye, but be open to surprises when you try them on.

Book appointments at a few shops, and tell the stylist your budget and any practical needs, such as sitting, dancing or breastfeeding. Try on at least three very different shapes, even ones you think you will hate. This helps you see what actually flatters your body and what feels right to move in. Bring a trusted friend or family member, but limit the group to two or three people. Too many opinions can confuse you.

Take photos from every angle, including sitting down, and look at them later with fresh eyes. Remember that dresses look different in photos and in motion. Walk, sit, raise your arms and bend. If you plan to dance, make sure you can. Also consider the season and venue. A heavy satin gown may be too warm for a summer outdoor wedding, while a light slip dress may not suit a cold church.

Finally, ignore trends if they do not feel like you. The right style is the one that makes you feel like the best version of yourself, not the one that looks best on a hanger. If you are unsure about alterations, ask the shop what is possible. Most dresses can be adjusted, but some changes are easier than others.