How do I make wedding shoes comfortable?

Short answer

Break them in before the wedding by wearing them around the house for short periods. Add cushioned insoles, blister plasters and heel grips. Bring a backup pair of flats or slippers for the evening. Choose a style you have worn before if possible.

Start by wearing your shoes indoors for an hour or two each day for a couple of weeks. This softens the material and lets you spot any rubbing points. Use blister plasters on your heels and toes before you put the shoes on, not after. Cushioned insoles add support, and heel grips stop your foot sliding forward. If your shoes are new on the day, keep a small emergency kit with plasters, spare insoles and a nail file.

Think about the venue. If you are marrying on grass or gravel, a thin heel can sink, so consider a block heel, wedge or flat. For a long ceremony and reception, alternate between your main shoes and a comfortable pair of flats or slippers during the meal and dancing. Many couples find that changing shoes halfway through the day keeps them smiling. If you are having a religious ceremony, check with your place of worship about any rules on footwear, such as removing shoes. For a civil ceremony, the registrar will not mind what you wear on your feet, but make sure you can walk safely to the signing table. Your comfort matters more than the photo, and no one will remember your shoes by the end of the night.