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Traditionally the groom pays for his own tuxedo, but many couples now share this cost. The key is to agree on who pays before you order anything.
There is no fixed rule about who pays for the groom's outfit. Old etiquette often said the groom's family covered his suit, but modern couples tend to handle this differently. Many couples choose to pay from their shared wedding budget, while others split costs between both families. The most important thing is that everyone agrees early, so no one feels surprised later. If your parents are offering to pay, it is kind to ask how much they intend to spend before you choose a style. If you prefer to cover your own outfit, that is perfectly acceptable too. You might also consider what your groomsmen are paying, as consistency can avoid awkward conversations. Some couples buy the groom's outfit as a gift from the partners, which can feel like a nice shared memory. Whatever you decide, write it down in your budget so you can track it. Remember that alterations, accessories and cleaning are often separate costs, so factor those in too. Open and honest talks now will save tension on the big day.
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