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There is no fixed rule. Traditionally the groom pays for his own outfit and the best man pays for his own suit, but many couples now cover the cost for the whole bridal party. Agree this early and kindly.
In the UK, there is no legal or formal rule about who pays for the best man's suit. Traditionally, the groom buys or hires his own outfit, and the best man pays for his own. However, this is changing. Many couples now choose to pay for all bridal party outfits, including the best man's, to make things fair and simple. Others ask each member to cover their own costs, especially if they will wear the suit again. The kindest approach is to talk openly before anything is booked. Ask the best man what he can comfortably afford, and be ready to adjust the plan. If you are hiring suits, the shop may offer a discount for a group booking, so it is worth asking. You could also agree that the couple pays for the hire, while the best man pays for any shoes or accessories. Whatever you decide, put it in writing so there are no surprises. The most important thing is that the best man feels valued, not burdened. If money is tight, a smart suit he already owns, with a matching tie or pocket square, can work beautifully.
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