How many bridesmaids do you get?

The idea that you 'get' a certain number of bridesmaids comes from old traditions, but in the UK today there is no fixed number. You are not entitled to a specific amount, and no one can tell you that you must have a certain count. The choice is completely yours.

Some couples choose one bridesmaid, others choose four or six, and some choose none. There is no official guidance from the government or the church on this. The only legal requirement for your wedding is that you have two witnesses to sign the marriage schedule or document. Those witnesses can be anyone aged 18 or over, and they do not need to be part of the wedding party.

Think about what you want from your bridesmaids. Do you want help with planning, emotional support, or just people to stand with you? That will guide the number. It is also worth considering the size of your venue and the number of ushers or groomsmen, so the sides look balanced if that matters to you.

Be careful not to feel pressured by what you see on social media or in films. A smaller group can be easier to manage and often feels more intimate. A larger group can be joyful but needs more organisation. Talk to your partner and decide together what feels right for your wedding, your friendships and your budget.