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Most engagement parties start in the late afternoon or early evening, usually between 4pm and 7pm. This suits a drinks-and-canapés style event and lets guests travel in daylight. For a lunch or brunch party, start between 11am and 1pm.
The start time depends on the style of party you want. For a classic drinks reception, 5pm or 6pm works well. Guests can come straight from work or on a weekend afternoon, and the party can naturally flow into the evening. If you plan a sit-down dinner, start around 7pm so people have time to get ready and travel.
A lunchtime engagement party, starting at 12pm or 1pm, is lovely for a Sunday roast or a garden picnic. It feels more relaxed and often suits older relatives or guests with young children. A brunch party starting at 11am is also gaining popularity, especially for a casual Saturday gathering.
Think about your venue and the season. In summer, a later start, say 6pm, lets you enjoy the lighter evenings outdoors. In winter, an earlier start, around 4pm or 5pm, means guests are not travelling in the dark for too long. Always check the venue's availability and any noise restrictions if you are hiring a space.
Whatever you choose, put the start time clearly on the invitation. If you expect guests to stay for several hours, mention the planned end time too, so people can arrange lifts or babysitters.
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