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No, a gift is not expected at an engagement party. The party celebrates the news, not the wedding. If you want to bring something small, like flowers or a bottle of fizz, that is kind, but your presence and congratulations are enough.
Engagement parties are about sharing the happy news with family and friends, not about presents. Most couples do not expect gifts at this stage, and many would rather you save your generosity for the wedding. If you are unsure, check the invitation. It will usually say "no gifts" or "your presence is the present" if that is the couple's wish. If there is no mention, assume gifts are not needed. If you want to bring something anyway, keep it small and personal, such as a bunch of flowers, a bottle of their favourite drink, or a card with a warm message. Do not feel pressured to spend money. The couple will appreciate you making the effort to attend and celebrate with them. If you are a close family member or part of the bridal party, you might choose to give a small keepsake, but that is your choice, not an obligation. The real gift is your support for their future together.
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