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Engagement parties usually do not have registries. Most couples do not expect gifts at all. If you want to give something, a small, personal gift or a card is perfect. A registry is more common for weddings.
In the UK, engagement party registries are rare. The party is usually a celebration of the news, not a gift-giving event. Most couples simply want to share their happiness with family and friends. So you should not feel any pressure to bring a present.
If you do want to bring something, keep it small and thoughtful. A bottle of fizz, a plant, or a framed photo of the two of you together are lovely ideas. Some couples appreciate a contribution towards their wedding fund, but that is entirely optional.
If you are the couple hosting the party, you do not need to set up a registry. If guests ask what you would like, you can politely say that their presence is enough. If you genuinely would welcome contributions, you could mention that you are saving for a honeymoon, but keep it light and optional.
Remember, the wedding itself is the main event for gifts. If you are a guest, focus on enjoying the party and celebrating with the couple. A warm hug and a sincere congratulations are the best gifts of all.
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