Can you provide some examples of RSVP wording?

Short answer

Yes. Here are three examples: formal, casual and online. Formal: "Kindly reply by [date]". Casual: "Let us know by [date] if you can make it". Online: "Please RSVP on our website by [date]".

Formal wording: "The favour of a reply is requested by [date]. Kindly indicate whether you will attend by returning the enclosed card." This suits a traditional wedding with printed reply cards.

Casual wording: "We would love to know if you can join us. Please text or email us by [date] with your answer. No need to post anything, just let us know." This works well for a relaxed celebration.

Online wording: "Please visit our wedding website to RSVP. The link is on the invitation. We ask that you reply by [date] so we can finalise arrangements."

For a reply card, you might write: "Name: ____. Will attend: Yes / No. Number of guests: ____. Dietary requirements: ____." Add a line like "We look forward to celebrating with you" at the bottom.

For a children's event or separate evening reception, add a line: "Please let us know if your children will join us" or "Please indicate if you will attend the ceremony, the reception, or both".

Always include the deadline clearly. If you have a website, put the address on the invitation and the card. Keep the wording consistent with your overall tone.