What should a traditional wedding invitation say?

Traditional wording follows a set structure. It starts with the hosts, usually the parents, who invite guests. For example, "Mr and Mrs Smith request the honour of your presence at the marriage of their daughter Emma to James Brown". If the couple are hosting themselves, it might say "Together with their families, Emma Smith and James Brown request the pleasure of your company".

Then you add the date, written in full, for example "Saturday, the fifteenth of June, two thousand and twenty-five". Include the time, the venue name and address, and often a line about the reception, such as "Reception to follow". If the ceremony is in a religious building, you might add "at half past two o'clock" in words rather than numbers.

You can also include a dress code, for example "Black tie" or "Morning dress", if you want. Traditional invitations often use formal language, but you can adapt it to your family shape. If you have divorced or remarried parents, list them in a way that feels right to you, or simply host yourselves. The key is clarity and warmth. If you are unsure about wording for a religious ceremony, ask your officiant or the venue, as some traditions have specific phrases.