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The head table typically holds the couple, their partners, the best man, the maid of honour, and sometimes the parents and children of the wedding party.
The head table is usually reserved for the couple getting married and their closest wedding party. This often includes the best man, maid of honour, bridesmaids and groomsmen, though some couples invite only the key supporters. Parents may join if there is room and it feels right for your family shape.
You might also include children, such as flower girls or page boys, if they are part of the wedding party. Some couples prefer a sweetheart table with just the two of them, leaving the bridal party to sit at nearby guest tables. This can make the day feel more relaxed and give everyone a chance to mingle.
There is no rule about who must sit where, so choose the arrangement that matches your vision and budget. If your ceremony has specific traditions, check with your registrar or place of worship, as customs can vary.
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