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Guests should wear whatever the hen do invitation suggests, whether that is a theme, a colour or smart casual. If there is no dress code, choose something comfortable and practical for the activities planned, and always bring layers or backup shoes.
The first rule is to check the invitation or group chat for a dress code. Many hen dos have a theme, like a colour, a decade or a fancy dress idea, and guests are expected to follow it. If the hen has not set a theme, aim for smart casual: a nice dress or smart trousers with a top works for most bars, restaurants and afternoon teas. Think about what you will actually be doing. If you are going to a spa or a day of activities, wear something easy to move in and pack a change of clothes for the evening. If you are going dancing, choose shoes you can walk and stand in for hours. It is also worth bringing a small bag with essentials like plasters, a hair tie and a cardigan, because venues can be chilly. The most important thing is to make the hen feel comfortable and celebrated, so avoid anything too revealing or restrictive unless the theme calls for it. When in doubt, ask the maid of honour or the organiser what everyone else is wearing, and remember that matching outfits are optional, not compulsory.
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