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Wear what you would to a smart lunch or a garden party, unless the couple says otherwise. Elopements are often small and informal, so check the invitation for dress code and ask the couple if you are unsure.
For an elopement, the dress code usually depends on where the ceremony happens and what the couple has planned. A beach elopement might call for linen and bare feet, while a register office wedding might suit smart casual or a simple dress and jacket. The safest approach is to ask the couple directly, or look at their wedding website or invitation for guidance. If they have not specified, aim for something neat, comfortable and weather appropriate. You can wear a hat, a fascinator or a bright colour if you like, but avoid anything that might outshine the couple, such as a white dress or a full suit of tails. Elopements often involve walking, standing on grass or sand, or travelling between venues, so choose shoes you can manage. Layers are useful for UK weather, even in summer. If the couple has planned a meal or a party afterwards, you may need a slightly smarter outfit for that part of the day. When in doubt, keep it simple and elegant. The couple chose a small wedding because they value intimacy, so your presence matters more than your outfit. A thoughtful, tidy look that fits the setting is always welcome.
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