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There is no official average number of children at a UK wedding, so you should plan based on your own guest list rather than a national figure.
Wedding sizes and family makeups vary so much across the UK that no reliable average exists. Some weddings have no children at all, while others have a whole row of young guests. The number depends on your venue, your budget, your culture and whether you choose to invite families with children.
Rather than trying to match a national figure, think about what you want for your day. If you want a relaxed family party, you might invite everyone. If you want an adults-only evening, you can say so politely on your invitations. Be clear and consistent, because mixed messages cause the most trouble.
If you do invite children, consider practical needs such as high chairs, a quiet space for naps and age-appropriate food. If you are unsure about your own plans, it is fine to wait until you know how many adults are coming before you decide on children.
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