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There is no required number. You can have one, two, four or none at all. Choose people who support you and will enjoy the role. What matters is that your wedding party feels right for you, not that it matches a tradition or a set count.
The size of your wedding party is entirely up to you. Some couples have a single best person and one attendant, while others have a large group of friends and siblings. You might choose to have no attendants at all, and that is fine too. The legal requirement is only that you have two witnesses at the ceremony, and those witnesses do not have to be in the wedding party.
Think about the practical side. Each attendant may need an outfit, a role on the day and possibly a thank-you gift. A larger party can add joy but also more coordination. Choose people who are reliable, kind and happy to help, not those you feel obliged to include.
If you have a mix of genders, you can use titles that feel comfortable, such as bridesmaid, groomsman, attendant or person of honour. The important thing is that everyone understands their role and feels valued. Keep the group small enough that you can enjoy their company without extra stress.
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