What is the milni ceremony and who takes part in it?

Short answer

Milni is the formal meeting of the two families, where they exchange garlands and gifts before the Anand Karaj. It usually involves close relatives from both sides.

Milni is a warm and joyful part of a Sikh wedding. It is the moment when the two families formally meet and welcome each other. This ceremony usually takes place before the Anand Karaj, often as the groom's party arrives at the gurdwara.

Close relatives from both families line up to greet one another. The groom's family typically presents garlands, sweets and small gifts to the bride's family, and the bride's family offers something in return. There is often music, laughter and lots of hugging. It is a chance for both families to get to know each other and celebrate the upcoming union.

The people who take part are usually the parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and siblings of the couple. Sometimes other close relatives join in too. The exact order and who participates can vary between families and regions. If you are a guest, you may be invited to join the milni or to watch from the side. Follow the couple's guidance on where to stand and when to take photos. It is a beautiful moment of connection between two families coming together.