Who usually pays for nikkah?

There is no single rule that applies to every family. In many traditions the groom covers the cost of the nikkah, including any fee for the officiant and the mahr. Other families share the expense, or the bride's family contributes. Some couples pay for it themselves, especially if they are both working.

What matters most is that everyone agrees before money is spent. Talk with your parents and each other about what feels fair. Write down who is paying for what so there is no confusion later. This is a good time to set expectations for the rest of the wedding too.

• Ask your imam or mosque about any fees for the ceremony.
• Clarify whether the mahr is paid at the nikkah or later.
• Decide together how to handle gifts from guests if your community expects them.

Religious and family customs differ across communities. If you are unsure about a particular detail, ask your place of worship. For the legal side of marriage in the UK, check GOV.UK or your local register office.