What is the horah and how do guests participate in the dance?

The horah is one of the most joyful moments at a Jewish wedding. Guests form a circle around the couple, then lift them onto chairs while dancing and singing. The couple may sway together on the chairs, holding hands or a tallit, while friends and family cheer them on.

Guests take turns dancing with the couple, often holding a handkerchief or a ribbon. The music is upbeat and traditional, and the dancing can continue for a long time. It is common for the horah to happen at both the ceremony and the reception.

If you are a guest, join in when invited. You do not need to know any steps. Simply follow the rhythm and clap along. If you are the couple, enjoy the moment and let your loved ones celebrate with you. Ask your musicians or planner to explain the flow if you are unsure how it works.