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Guests should dress smartly and modestly, covering shoulders and knees, and wear comfortable shoes for standing and dancing. Always check the invitation for any specific requests.
There is no single rule for every Jewish wedding, so the invitation is your best guide. Many ceremonies take place in a synagogue or under a chuppah, and modest dress is a sign of respect. As a general rule, cover your shoulders and knees. A jacket and tie work well for men, while women often choose a dress or a skirt and top that is not too short or low-cut. Avoid white, since the bride usually wears it, and avoid black at daytime events. Footwear matters too, because you will likely stand for parts of the service and dance for much of the reception. Bring a wrap or pashmina if your outfit is sleeveless, and choose shoes you can dance in. Some weddings are very formal, others are relaxed, so let the venue and time of day steer you. If you are unsure, a smart outfit that covers the shoulders and knees will fit most occasions. Families sometimes mark special moments, like the breaking of the glass, with applause, but you do not need to do anything special with your clothes. If the couple has asked for traditional dress or specific colours, follow their wishes. When in doubt, ask the couple or a member of the wedding party. They will be glad to tell you what suits their plans.
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