What is the chair dance at a Jewish wedding and how is it done?

Short answer

The chair dance, or Hora, is a celebratory dance where the bride and groom are lifted on chairs and carried around the dance floor by guests. It happens while people dance in a circle holding their hands.

This lively moment usually comes after the ceremony, once the couple has been lifted to show they are honoured. Strong friends and family members stand behind each chair, holding the frame or the couple's legs, and lift them up. Others form a circle, holding hands or linking arms, and dance around the pair. Music plays loudly, and guests often join in with clapping and singing.

The dance can last for several minutes. It is not a formal routine, so anyone willing can help lift a chair or join the circle. If you are not confident about lifting, you can still take part by dancing in the circle or cheering. The aim is to share joy and support the couple as they start their life together.

Some weddings hold the chair dance for the bride and groom separately, while others do it together. The timing and length vary by family and community. If you are unsure how it will work at your wedding, ask the couple or the wedding planner beforehand so you know when to join in.