Can orthodox Jews marry non-Jews?

Under orthodox Jewish law, marriage is only recognised between two Jewish people. A religious ceremony performed by an orthodox rabbi would not take place if one partner is not Jewish. This is a matter of religious law, not civil law.

UK law allows any two people over 18 to marry, regardless of faith or background. So a couple where one partner is Jewish and the other is not can still hold a legal wedding in a register office or approved venue. They might also choose a ceremony led by a rabbi from a different Jewish movement, or a non-denominational celebrant, depending on what each family accepts.

Families sometimes find this difficult, and it is worth talking openly about what matters most. Some couples choose to have both a civil ceremony and a religious blessing, while others focus on a ceremony that honours both backgrounds. Your local synagogue, register office or celebrant can help you understand the options available to you.