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At what age can a Jewish girl marry?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For parents

Short answer

In Jewish law, a girl can marry once she reaches puberty, which is traditionally considered age 12. However, UK law sets the minimum age to marry at 18, and this legal requirement applies to everyone in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland.

Jewish tradition recognises adulthood at different ages for boys and girls. A girl is considered a bat mitzvah and reaches religious adulthood at 12. Historically, this meant she could marry. Today, most Jewish communities do not arrange or perform marriages at this age.

What matters most for a wedding in the UK is the law. You must be 18 or older to marry in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland. This rule applies regardless of your faith or cultural background. A religious ceremony alone may not be legally binding, so you may need to complete the civil paperwork too.

Some couples choose to have a religious ceremony first and a legal registration later, or combine both. Your rabbi, celebrant or register office can explain how to arrange this. Always check the current legal requirements with GOV.UK or your local register office before planning your date.

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