Who gets invited to a Haldi?

Most families keep the Haldi small and informal. It is common to invite the bride's and groom's closest relatives, childhood friends and the bridal party. Many couples choose to hold separate Haldi ceremonies for the bride and groom, with women attending one and men the other. Others combine them into one relaxed party.

Because the paste can stain clothes, some families keep the guest list to those who are comfortable getting messy. You might invite everyone from the wedding day, or just the people who are already involved in the pre-wedding events.

If you want a larger celebration, that is fine too. Just be clear about who is invited so no one feels left out. There is no legal or religious rule about the guest list for this event.

If you are unsure, talk to both families and agree on a list together. You can also mention on your invitations that the Haldi is a close gathering, so guests know what to expect.