What is the reason for Haldi in a wedding?

Haldi takes place a day or two before the wedding, usually at the bride's or groom's home. Family and friends gather to sing, dance and apply a paste made from turmeric, oil and sometimes rose water or sandalwood to the couple's face, arms and legs. The colour is bright yellow, which is considered auspicious in Hindu tradition.

The ritual has several meanings. Turmeric is believed to cleanse and purify, both physically and spiritually. It is thought to ward off evil and bring good luck. The massage helps relax the couple before a long ceremony and leaves their skin glowing for the wedding day. It is also a moment of celebration, where elders bless the couple and share advice.

The event is usually separate for the bride and groom, with close family and friends attending. It is informal and joyful, with music and light food. Since it involves applying paste to skin, check with anyone who has sensitive skin or allergies beforehand. If your wedding includes a legal civil ceremony, plan the timing so the Haldi does not conflict with the register office appointment. Your place of worship or family priest can advise on local customs.