What is a traditional Chinese wedding like from start to finish?

The day often starts before dawn with the groom's procession to collect the bride. Bridesmaids may play games to test his devotion before he is allowed in. He then serves tea to her parents and receives red envelopes or gifts in return.

Next comes the tea ceremony with both families. The couple kneels and serves tea to grandparents and elders, who give blessings and red envelopes. This part is the heart of the day and shows respect to the family line.

Afterward, the couple travels to a banquet hall for a multi-course meal. Guests receive red envelopes with money as a gift. Toasts are made and lucky foods are served. The day usually ends late, with the couple seeing guests off at the door.

Many couples also hold a separate Western-style ceremony and reception. The order and length vary by family and region, so ask your parents how they would like it run.