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Key customs include the tea ceremony, red envelopes, the colour red, a procession to collect the bride, and a banquet with lucky foods. Each act honours elders and invites good fortune for the marriage.
Red is the main colour. It symbolises luck and joy. The couple wears red, and guests often give money in red envelopes. The bride may wear a red qipao for the tea ceremony and a white dress for the reception, or choose both in red.
The tea ceremony is central. The couple serves tea to elders in order of seniority. Elders bless them and give red envelopes. This is how the couple formally joins both families.
A procession brings the groom to the bride's home. Bridesmaids ask him to complete tasks or answer questions before he can see her. The family then exchanges gifts, including sweets and fruits, to show prosperity.
The banquet features lucky dishes such as fish, noodles and rice balls. Toasts are made and the couple changes outfits several times. Guests give red envelopes instead of physical gifts.
Some families also follow an engagement ceremony with specific gifts. Rules differ by region and family, so check with your parents or the register office if you need legal detail.
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