Skip to content
Wedding websites built for you in 48 hours · RSVP for every event · From £149

Cultures and faiths · Chinese weddings

What are the key Chinese wedding traditions and customs?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For guests · For parents

Short answer

Key customs include the tea ceremony, red envelopes, the colour red, a procession to collect the bride, and a banquet with lucky foods. Each act honours elders and invites good fortune for the marriage.

Red is the main colour. It symbolises luck and joy. The couple wears red, and guests often give money in red envelopes. The bride may wear a red qipao for the tea ceremony and a white dress for the reception, or choose both in red.

The tea ceremony is central. The couple serves tea to elders in order of seniority. Elders bless them and give red envelopes. This is how the couple formally joins both families.

A procession brings the groom to the bride's home. Bridesmaids ask him to complete tasks or answer questions before he can see her. The family then exchanges gifts, including sweets and fruits, to show prosperity.

The banquet features lucky dishes such as fish, noodles and rice balls. Toasts are made and the couple changes outfits several times. Guests give red envelopes instead of physical gifts.

Some families also follow an engagement ceremony with specific gifts. Rules differ by region and family, so check with your parents or the register office if you need legal detail.

People also search

  • chinese wedding traditions
  • chinese wedding traditions and customs
  • china wedding traditions
  • chinese wedding customs and traditions
Was this answer helpful?

Answers from couples and guests

No answers from readers yet. Been through this yourself? Share what worked for you.

Add your answer

Related questions

From other topics

From our studio

Everything for your wedding, in one place

Your website, your invitations and the signs on the day, designed to match. One-off prices, paid once.