What is the wedding ceremony order with a unity candle?

Short answer

A unity candle is usually lit after the vows and rings, then placed on a table as a symbol of your marriage. It is not a legal part of the ceremony.

There is no fixed legal order for a unity candle because it is a symbolic act, not a legal requirement. Most couples place it after the vows and ring exchange, once the marriage has been legally declared. The officiant will usually explain its meaning before you light it together.

A common flow looks like this:

Readings, songs or poems
Vows and ring exchange
Declaration of marriage
Unity candle lighting
Pronouncement and kiss
Signing of the documents

If you are having a civil ceremony in England or Wales, remember that religious content is not allowed, so the explanation should be non-religious. Religious buildings may have their own traditions, so ask your minister or celebrant what fits your service. Outdoors weddings can be tricky with candles because of wind, so consider a windproof option or a backup plan.

The signing of the marriage schedule happens after the ceremony with your two witnesses, so make sure the candle does not block the signing table. Keep the flame safe and have a bucket of water nearby just in case.