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The main stages are the ceremony, formal portraits, a drinks reception, the meal with speeches, and dancing or evening celebrations. Religious and cultural traditions add their own steps.
The day begins with getting ready, where the couple and their wedding party prepare separately. Some couples choose a first look before the ceremony so they can enjoy the reception together. The ceremony itself is the legal and symbolic centre, whether it takes place at a register office, an approved venue or a place of worship. Two witnesses must be present for the legal part.
After the ceremony, the wedding party poses for formal photographs while guests enjoy refreshments. The meal follows, often with speeches from the couple, parents and witnesses. Dancing and cake cutting come next, along with any cultural rituals such as a money dance or tea ceremony. The evening may end with a farewell moment.
- Getting ready
- Ceremony
- Portraits
- Drinks reception
- Meal and speeches
- Dancing and celebrations
- Evening send-off
If you are unsure about any legal or religious requirement, check with your register office or place of worship.
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