What is a good wedding budget?

Short answer

A good wedding budget is one you set by working backwards from what you can realistically save and spend without debt. Start with your total figure, then divide it across your priorities, not someone else's template.

Start by agreeing with your partner on the total amount you are comfortable spending. Look at your savings, what you can put aside each month, and any contributions from family. Be honest about what that means in practice. A good budget is not a fixed number from a website or a friend's wedding. It is the amount that lets you celebrate without financial worry afterwards.

Once you have your total, list what matters most to you both. Maybe that is the food, the photography, or the venue. Put more money there, and spend less on things you care about less. For example, you might choose a simpler dress or fewer flowers to free up money for a band you love. Write the budget down and keep it somewhere you can both see it. Check it every few weeks.

Remember to include the small costs that add up, like postage for invitations, thank-you cards, and tips for suppliers. Leave a little room for the unexpected, but do not let that become a blank cheque. If you are unsure about legal or venue fees, ask your venue or register office directly. The rules can vary, so check with them or GOV.UK for anything official.