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Common pitfalls include starting too late, choosing an inexperienced seamstress, not bringing the right shoes or underwear, and asking for changes that ruin the dress's structure. Also, forgetting that weight changes can undo the work, and not budgeting for extra materials.
One of the biggest pitfalls is leaving alterations until the last minute. Good seamstresses book up months ahead, and rushing leads to mistakes. Another is picking someone who does not specialise in wedding dresses. Bridal fabrics like lace, silk, and beading need careful handling, and a general tailor might not have the skills.
Bringing the wrong shoes or underwear to fittings is very common. If you wear different heels or a different bra on the day, the hem and bodice will not sit correctly. Also, many people forget to factor in the weight of the dress itself. A heavy gown can pull down on straps or change the fit when you stand for a long time.
Asking for major structural changes, like taking in a corset back or changing a sweetheart neckline, can weaken the dress or alter its original design. Sometimes it is better to buy a different dress than to force a major redesign. Another pitfall is not budgeting for extras like new lace, boning, or a bustle for the reception. These add up.
Finally, do not have your final fitting too early. If you lose or gain weight in the last few weeks, the dress may no longer fit. And always have a backup plan, such as a trusted friend who can do a quick emergency stitch on the day.
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