What is the something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue tradition?

The rhyme goes: something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue. It is a long-standing tradition in the UK, though it is not a legal requirement. Many couples enjoy it as a sweet way to include family and friends in the day.

Something old often represents continuity and family history. It might be a piece of jewellery from your grandmother, a handkerchief from your mum, or a vintage hair clip. Something new stands for hope and the new life you are starting. It could be your dress, shoes, or a new piece of jewellery.

Something borrowed is usually from someone whose marriage you admire, and it is meant to bring good fortune. It should be returned after the wedding. Something blue is linked to love, purity and faithfulness. It can be hidden, like blue stitching inside your dress, a blue garter, or blue shoes. Some couples add a sixpence in the shoe, but that is optional.

There is no rule about how to do it. You can choose items that are meaningful to you, or skip the tradition altogether. If you want to include it, decide early so you can plan and ask people in good time.