Who is responsible for providing something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue?

There is no rule that assigns these items to a specific person. In practice, many brides enjoy gathering the items themselves, because it gives them a chance to choose pieces with personal meaning. Others delegate to their bridal party or close family members. For example, your mum might provide something old from her own wedding, your sister could lend you something borrowed, and your maid of honour might pick out a small blue accessory. If you are a couple planning together, you can share the task. The key is communication: let people know what you are looking for, and be open to their suggestions. Some couples choose to include items that represent both partners, such as a blue item from the groom's family. The tradition is optional, so if you do not want to participate, that is perfectly fine. If you do, treat it as a fun, collaborative part of your preparation rather than a duty. There are no consequences for missing an element, and no one will check.